This is Adam McNatt and I want to give you an update
concerning our oldest daughter Vanessa McNatt. She was in a car accident on
Monday night, September 16, 2013 approximately 10:45 P.M. She was the only
person involved in the accident. The accident was severe but God’s hand of
protection was on her as we have noticed the countless possibilities that were
avoided.
Vanessa was on her way home from her boyfriend’s house after
a long weekend and a long day at work. She was only a couple minutes from home
when she fell asleep at the wheel. Nearby witnesses said she never touched the
brakes as she bounced off a curb and then went directly into the all brick
business mailbox that was reinforced with steel rods. The mailbox was moved off
its foundation at least 5 feet and bricks were scattered everywhere.
The crash sound was described like the sound of a train
wreck, the car horn was blaring, airbags were deployed and Vanessa was rudely
awaken with her adrenaline pumping. In shock she quickly grabbed her phone and
purse and began to get out of the car. At that moment she realized she could
not move her right leg.
Innocent bystanders and emergency help was on the scene in
record time. A gentleman named Danny Purcella who appeared to be on his way
home from playing in a baseball game rushed to her immediately upon realizing
she could not get out of the car. He single handedly lifted her out of the car
and gently laid her on the ground near by. Danny began to pray for Vanessa, the
car horn stopped and another Holy Spirit filled Christian believer was on the
scene and began to pray in agreement. Two or more were already gathered and
praying…Jesus was in the midst of them.
Vanessa was still in her right mind and very aware as her
body lay paralyzed. The pain from the broken femur bone in her right leg was
obvious and the appearance of her leg revealed the injury before any
confirmation was necessary. Her face was swollen from the impact of the airbag
but appeared to be contorted even as her body was lying on the ground.
Somehow through all the pain and chaos Vanessa was able to
call me at home. I answered the phone on speakerphone as Belinda and I were at
the kitchen table. We had just settled down after experimenting with the many
uses of an Aloe Vera leaf. We heard Vanessa’s voice in a frantic. At first we
couldn’t understand her and then all she said was, “Dad I’ve been in an
accident…come to Kroger.”
Amidst the tears and staggering voice that cried in
desperation we heard our precious little girl use a tone that was reserved for
devastating moments. As I rushed for the keys Belinda said, “I’m going. I want
to go.” I quickly responded, “Then get the girls I’m out the door.” Before I
could slip on shoes and exit the house Jewel and Allison were rushing out the
door.
Belinda had run up stairs and woke the girls abruptly as she
announced that Vanessa had been in an accident. No shoes and only in sleepwear
Jewel jumped in the car in a long t-shirt and Allison in a nightgown. Belinda
was right behind and we were on our way to the scene of the accident. Prayers
immediately filled the car as our faith arose. We had no idea what we would see
when we arrived, concerned that our baby may be there all alone.
After we made our speedy exit from home and left the
neighborhood the realization that her call to us could have been the only call
she made became clear. I told Belinda to call Vanessa back and ask if she
needed us to call 911. We still didn’t know if this was a fender bender or a
life-threatening situation. When a man answered the phone Belinda instantly
realized this was not a mild incident. The man explained that emergency units
were already on the way.
When we approached the scene our hearts were slightly
relieved to see emergency vehicles were already present. We were able to park
in the business office parking lot that had just lost their mailbox. Not
knowing what we would see when we gazed upon our daughter, the two younger
sisters were encouraged to pray for their older sister while they looked on
from a distance in the back of our vehicle.
Before we even approached Vanessa, we had already activated
our heavenly prayer language. When we saw her body lying there twisted and
stiff our faith arose as we began to decree healing and health over her life
with spiritual authority. We quickly realized there were others around us who
were praying in the spirit as well. We knew God was there and that our
faithfulness to Him was enabling us to trust Him and not worry.
The paramedics asked us to back away so they could care for
her. Her boyfriend Rich was already on the scene as we began to notice the
whole setting. We were still in the process of believing for healing but
already noticing the miracle that Vanessa was alive. She fell asleep at the
wheel on a busy road. She could have hit an oncoming car, a tree, a nearby
house or even rolled the vehicle off into a ditch.
There was hardly any bleeding aside from the pool that would
form on her swollen upper lip. Still the position of her body required us to
look through eyes of faith in order to see that she would be made whole. To the
natural man it appeared as though she may have many severe internal injuries
and possibly be unable to move.
The unbearable moment of pulling her leg with the broken
femur to set it was upon us, but before we realized what was taking place a man
approached Belinda and I and asked us if we would like to pray together. We had
been praying since the phone call but we were thankful to have someone initiate
prayer with us as an open sign of agreement. My brother Arek called Rich at
that moment and was praying with him simultaneously. During our prayers with
individuals we heard the excruciating scream from Vanessa as they set the femur
bone.
People were already seeing the witness of believers coming
together. Our composure and authority stunned them. One man even approached
Belinda and said, “What is that language you are speaking? It sounds so
beautiful. It sounds Aramaic.” Striking Belinda funny, because she is familiar
with God using us in the most unlikely places, she was not quite sure how to
get into this conversation at such a critical time. Immediately one of the
other spirit-filled believers stepped up and said, “I’ll handle this.” God was
already using this tragedy and our faith for a greater purpose.
Once the paramedics had loaded Vanessa into the emergency
vehicle Belinda road up front and Rich followed the vehicle all the way to
Gwinnett Medical Center. I stayed behind and waited for my parents to arrive so
they could take Jewel and Allison back to their place. Jewel at 10 years old
and Allison at 7 years old were already demonstrating the faith of a strong
Christian as I comforted them with words of faith. They had been in tears for
their sister and had been praying for her as well. Confidently they informed me
that they knew everything would be all right because they prayed for Vanessa
and God was going to heal her.
Once the girls were in my parents care I stopped by the
house to get any important items that were left behind and then went directly
to the hospital. Arriving at the hospital I was greeted by Rich, Belinda and
several of Vanessa’s friends (Courtney, Corey, Wes, and Mitch). Everyone was
outside at the moment because Vanessa was being seen for X-Rays. Belinda and I
went back to the emergency room to be with Vanessa after her X-Rays were
completed. We loved on her, consoled her and prayed over her as we stayed at
her bedside. It was now shortly after midnight and we would remain in this tiny
room until Vanessa was on her way to Pre-Opp around 5:00 A.M.
While in the emergency room the results from the X-Rays came
back and we were already receiving good news. Vanessa had no major injuries or
issues aside from the broken femur bone in her right leg. The injury was a
clean break making it a straightforward procedure to insert a rod into her leg.
With the insertion of a rod her pain management would become the greatest
issue. The rod would enable her to walk with crutches or a walker within a few
days.
They began to transfer Vanessa in preparation for her
operation scheduled for 8:30 A.M. The staff working with her was first class
and evidence that God’s favor was on Vanessa and her situation was at every
turn. A seasoned doctor whose primary focus is fractures, Dr. Bruce Zirahn,
would be operating on her.
While making her transition and going for more X-Rays,
Belinda and I did a one-hour roundtrip to our home to prepare for the next few
days of staying at the hospital with Vanessa. We returned to the hospital and
made our way to the room that had been assigned to Vanessa for the next few
days. After what seemed like only a moment in room 754 with our daughter she
was rolled away for operation.
Everything was happening so fast and it seemed as though the
shock of what had just taken place was not settling in. However, the only tears
we would shed would be tears of happiness and joy. Our daughter was alive and
well and safely in the hands of the Lord. Prayers were already emerging
internationally as a result of a few twitter updates and a couple of phone
calls. We continued to do our best to update our friends and family by sending
tweets from our @adamandbelinda account on Twitter.
The surgery was successful and Vanessa was returned to her
room. Before she was fully off the anesthesia she had already had visitors who
brought balloons, flowers, gifts and a Laffy Taffy bouquet. Of course the Laffy
Taffy bouquet would gladly be enjoyed by family and friends since this is not a
favorite of Vanessa’s, but it served its purpose by bringing a smile on her
face.
The goal of the hospital was to get Vanessa home as quickly
as possible. With no insurance they were motivated to move the patient out of
the room. Their plans to have her out by Wednesday didn’t pan out due to the
issues that would arise concerning pain management. There were early attempts
to take her off the Dalaudid that failed. Reducing the pain medicine early
caused her to be in severe pain that would take her breath away.
In the hospital they were asking Vanessa to rate her pain on
level of 0-10, 0 being no pain and 10 being the worst possible pain. Upon her
arrival into the emergency room just after the incident she rated her pain at a
6. After the surgery there were many times that her pain level would be a 10.
Watching the frustration and pain would become more difficult than the total
interruption on life itself. We would find ourselves coaching her through bouts
with pain, “Breath in through your nose and out through your mouth. Deep
breaths…slowly.”
Over the next few days in room 754 Vanessa would have a host
of visitors and phone calls. Facebook and other social networks were flooded
with prayers and concern for her. Rich would go to work all day and come to her
bedside as soon as he could get to the hospital. He would stay overnight at the
hospital and leave by 6:20A.M. to go to work. Belinda and I would stay at the
hospital all day until late at night and then return when Rich was leaving for
work.
With lots of love and little sleep this exhausting week
would seem as but a day. By Thursday we were certain Vanessa would be going
home the next day. Belinda and I went home late that evening to prepare the
house for our daughter’s arrival. Her bedroom was upstairs and that was not
going to work. We had been away from our two youngest daughters all week and
were thrilled to be seeing them again. I went to pick them up from the
grandparents and Belinda was in full prep mode.
That night we brought a bed down and rearranged the infamous
multi-purpose room at our home. This room was originally a garage that had been
converted to an additional room. It has served as an in-home office for
international ministries, sanctuary for a church plant, recording studio, band
rehearsal room, home school room, media duplication room, video recording studio,
a live studio for preaching to churches in countries like Pakistan via Skype
and the room where we launched The 47 Spot…amongst other things. Now this room
would serve as the bedroom for Vanessa while still being used as an office.
The setup for Vanessa in this room served us well with
direct access to the driveway. The convenience for guests and visitors who would
arrive made it easy for them to spend time with her. We had more unexpected
guests in the few days she was home then in our past 11+ years of living at
this location combined. Each time a friend visited her it would bring a smile
to her face. We are so grateful for the many who have expressed kindness toward
her.
After we got Vanessa’s room set up in the “multi-purpose”
room, Belinda returned to the hospital on Friday morning for the first time
alone. I stayed at home with Jewel and Allison and continued to prepare for her
arrival. The anticipation of her arrival was building and time seemed to be in
a whirlwind. The day passed so quickly yet it felt as though we were waiting
forever. Friday evening, around 8:00PM, Vanessa finally made it home. This was
after a quick stop by Joe’s to Goes so some of her former co-workers and
friends could come to the car and say hello…as well as a quick stop for a
smoothie.
When the car pulled up in the driveway Jewel, Allison and I
were waiting at the door with excitement as if we were about to have a surprise
party. We were so anxious for her to see the room we had set up, give her welcome
home cards and see her in the house. The moment wasn’t exactly what we
anticipated. We could see joy and pain, gladness and concern, as well as excitement
buried beneath the dreadful anticipation of exiting the car, all on Vanessa’s
face at the same time. She was happy to be home but no one was looking forward
to the next few moments.
Leaving the hospital and getting into the small Nissan
Sentra wasn’t nearly as bad as trying to get out of this vehicle that sits so
low to the ground. Guiding her right leg that was she was unable to move on her
own was like playing one of those games where you guide the metal loop around
the metal bar hoping not to touch it. You know the one where you’re moving
along carefully, steady and all of the sudden, “BUZZ!” the alarm sounds and the
lights flash.
She was finally out of the car and then we had the doorway.
The doorway that is 3 inches off the ground and always requires a courtesy,
“Watch your step” as individuals go in and out. Vanessa handled the walker
incredibly well but the lack of strength and control in her leg, in addition to
the intense pain, caused her to freeze halfway through the doorframe. Unable to
move and riveted with pain I eventually had to squeeze my body in next to hers
so I could physically pick her up and lift her into the house.
Once she was inside, she got her first view of the room we
had set up. The pain made it near impossible for her to express her
appreciation but she was still able to offer, through her own words, a kind stamp
of approval. Finally she was able to rest in the bed where she has been for nearly 7 weeks.
Our lives may have taken an unexpected turn for sure. Vanessa may have taken an unexpected turn into a small brick wall that changed the total direction of her life...for now. You may be facing or may encounter "unexpected turns" in your future, but God is still faithful. He remains with you always. He never leaves you and He will not forsake you. You may feel as though you are in the fire, but if you will trust in the Lord He will walk with you through the fire and you will not be burned.
Vanessa has progressed from nearly no mobility to walking speedily without crutches or support of any kind. She is still healing and overcoming the need to limp, but the swiftness of her recovery has been astounding to say the least. To God be the glory for the great things He has done.
Belinda and I are grateful for friends and family who have
shown support in so many ways. Your prayers are most appreciated. We are
trusting God each step of the way. With the added expenses, numerous jobs that
have been cancelled, the loss of Vanessa’s car and the fact that she is unable
to work but still has bills, we know and are counting on the fact that God is
Jehovah Jireh our Provider.
We may not know who He will use or how He will sustain us
but God has never failed us yet and He will not fail us now. Your continued
prayers are necessary, even vital and we are grateful that you have included
our family in your petitions to the Lord.
We will continue to update everyone on our Twitter account.
You can follow @adamandbelinda on Twitter, but if you do not have an account
simply go to http://twitter.com/adamandbelinda
and scroll down to September 16 for the first entry concerning the accident.
A Recovery Fund has been set up for Vanessa. This money will
go directly to her through the GoFundMe account she set up. If you would like
to make a contribution please do so at http://www.gofundme.com/4kf8us
You may send cards and letters to 206 Northwind Court SW,
Lilburn, GA 30047.
By Adam W. McNatt
adamandbelinda.com
